Exploring Long-Term BDSM Dynamics with Mistress Sasha The Destroyer

There is only one reason I've had a Submissive for over 6 years...I am going to tell you why...

A Peek Beyond the Bedroom:

I have my regulars for one special reason…connection. It is something I truly value. Each submissive of mine has their own story, their own history, and journey as to what brought them to me. In many ways, I can not help but to be curious.

After suggesting a book, a submissive of mine came back to me praising the recommendation telling me how it helped with his depression.

Another submissive of mine finds my laughter contagious especially with my post session humour. We are going on 6 years.

This Doesn’t JUST happen.

Relationships are built on reciprocity, love, and generosity. As a Pro Domme one of the ways I know you truly value my work both in and out of the bedroom is with tips, gifts, and treats. These small or big tokens of generosity show me that you care to share your resources with me. Beyond finance, favors like letting me use your beach house for the week or acts of service like getting me the connection I may need also shows me how much you adore me.

In return, I aim to find ways to make you fall deeper and deeper into submission to me, by helping you explore your BDSM playground. With me, we strip away shame to reveal acceptance and perhaps a whirlwind submissive head rush and orgasm if you deserve it ;).

This Starts With You…

While I am a Mistress of mystery and talent, the weight of this type of dynamic can not fully fall on me alone. Of course many who see me, want a small novelty to their life and aim to move on. However, if you seek more, you must do more. Many who do seek this type of dynamic will never have to be told what to do to achieve it. They already know how to build this dynamic. Possibly they have served before. For the novice, it is going to take time, effort, generosity, as well as understanding my own boundaries. As respect is also a part of this dynamic. Yours…and mine.

This deep dynamic is for the best of submissives.

So for a novice what does that mean? Subscribe for next week’s deeper dive into developing a long term BDSM dynamic with a Mistress like myself.