She’ll Never Dominate You… But I Will.

Most girlfriends & wives won’t dominate you—not because they can’t, but because they don’t want to. That’s why you’ll always crawl back to me.

Let’s get one thing clear: I hear it all the time.

“I wish my girlfriend would dominate me.”
“I wish my wife understood my kinks.”

But darling, wishing won’t make her a Dominatrix. And deep down… you know she never will be.
But I will.

You see, female domination doesn’t just happen because you want it to. It unfolds because she wants it to. That’s the difference between a fantasy and reality.

Most women aren’t born dominant—they’re made. Sculpted by experience, seduction, power, and sensuality. And if your partner doesn’t have that spark? That command? That hunger? Then you’ll keep waiting forever.

I got into Femdom through a relationship.
A man handed me the reins, and I took them without hesitation.

He worshipped me, adored me, and spoiled me.
I chose the restaurants. He paid the bills. I made the rules.

And in the bedroom?
I ruled him like a queen—with her scepter buried deep inside his need.
He lived to serve me. That was his pleasure. And that was my power.

But you?
You’re still living in a fantasy—one where your wife magically wakes up one day and suddenly becomes the fierce, experienced Domme of your dreams.

Sweetheart, wake up. That’s not reality.

Reality is this: she probably doesn't get what she wants in the relationship. She’s probably tired. Tapped out. Giving, giving, giving.

And now, you want to take from her again—this time in the bedroom?

Why would she want to dominate you, when she’s already doing everything else?

Dominance isn’t a chore. It’s a gift.
A lifestyle. A fire that burns from deep within.

I’ve been in this game nearly a decade.
I know the male psyche better than you know your own.
I know how to make you squirm. How to edge you for hours.
How to humiliate you and have you thank me for it.

I’ve given men orgasms their wives never could.
Orgasms they didn't even know were possible.

And it’s not just the physical—that's easy.
It’s the psychology behind it. That’s where I live. That’s where I win.

Your partner, bless her, may try for your sake. But if she’s doing it just to make you happy, it’ll never be satisfying—for either of you.

Because Femdom isn't about pleasing you.
It's about worshiping her.

And here’s the million-dollar question:

Are you truly serving her—or are you just trying to get her to serve you in a different costume?

If you want a dominant woman to take control, the first step is giving her a reason to.

Do you make her feel like a goddess outside the bedroom?
Do you give her power in the relationship?
Do you even ask her what she wants?

Most of you don’t.

You think submission means you’re already doing enough.
But let me break it to you: rubbing her feet isn’t a tribute if you’re doing it just to earn anal.

Real submission is selfless.
And that’s what makes it so erotic.

If your wife or girlfriend ever does awaken her inner Mistress, it will be on her time, her terms, and only if you’ve created space for her power to rise.

And even then, many of you still come crawling back to me.

Why?

Because you want more than a fantasy.
You want skill. Experience. Precision.

And that, darling, is what only a real Dominatrix can give you.

Now kneel.

And remember:
I will dominate you.
Because I want to.

— Mistress Sasha the Destroyer