Submit to the Identity: Become the Best Submissive You’ve Ever Been
Affirmations aren't just for the woo-woo girls—every good submissive needs a mantra, a purpose, and a deep, throbbing desire to serve.


This isn’t just another tease.
It’s a sacred entry in my diary—dedicated to you. Yes, you—the one aching to be the best submissive I’ve ever owned, used, trained, molded.
The one who’s not here for once-a-month fantasies or once-a-quarter pegging. No. This is for the hungry ones. The daily servicers. The lifers.
The ones who understand that submission is not something you do, it’s who you are.
Because to be mine—truly mine—you don’t just serve in the bedroom. You serve in the way you wake up. The way you check in. The way you whisper your devotion when no one is watching.
It starts with submission to identity. You must become the good submissive you crave to be.
And how does that happen? With repetition. With consistency. With a mantra so deeply embedded in your body that your very breath is an offering. So repeat after me. No shame, no hesitation. I want you to feel these words as you say them:
I am a good submissive to Mistress Sasha the Destroyer.
I obey all of her commands.
I greet her with the respect and reverence she deserves.
I work on myself—mind, body, and soul—so I may better serve her.
I am worthy of her punishments, and just as worthy of her rare rewards.
I learn about BDSM to please her. I know her blog by heart.
I study her protocols, her preferences, even her vanilla pleasures.
I am devoted. I am evolving. I am hers.
You see, submission is a practice. It’s not something you wear like a costume, only to discard when it’s inconvenient.
It’s a second skin. And mine, my sweet, should be marked across every inch of you—mentally, emotionally, physically.
This kind of devotion isn't for the faint of heart. It's for the submissive who gets hard at the sound of my voice, who feels shamefully thrilled by the idea of disappointing me—and even more thrilled by the possibility of being corrected.
It's for the ones who crave not just the erotic high of obedience, but the spiritual grounding of service. Because when you devote yourself to me fully, you’re not just pleasing me. You’re finally aligning with the version of yourself you were always meant to be.
A good submissive doesn’t wait to be told what to do. A good submissive anticipates. Learns. Improves. Craves instruction. Seeks correction.
And I will give it. But only if you’re ready.
So the question is, are you ready to submit not just to me, but to the identity of being mine?
Good. Then keep this entry close. Whisper it before bed. Say it before you touch yourself. Let it ring in your ears as you serve.
Because a good submissive doesn’t need permission to believe they are owned. They simply know it.
And you, my pet—
You are mine.
—Mistress Sasha the Destroyer