The 9 Submissive Archetypes (According to a Dominatrix Who’s Seen Them All)

Every submissive has a core archetype that shapes how they serve—whether in lifestyle love or under a professional’s boot—and I’m here to help you find yours.

You don’t become Mistress Sasha the Destroyer by not seeing patterns. I’ve had hundreds of submissives crawl before me—some wanting punishment, others desperate to please, and more than a few that needed breaking just to bloom. And whether I met them in a professional dungeon or seduced them into a full-time, lifestyle power exchange, they all had a role to play. A mask. A core. A submissive archetype.

Understanding your submissive identity isn’t about limiting yourself. It’s about claiming your truth, owning your kink, and—when you're ready—offering it up to someone worthy of it.

So, little one… which one are you?